Advances in Pleasure

There have been a number of times in my career as an author and an educator that I’ve shaken my natural curls in wonder, asking “what will they think of next?”. I am a great believer in enhancement. Why shouldn’t we enhance ourselves? Women have been doing this for as long as we have lived. … Read more

Sexual Healing vs Sexual Stealing

This is a sensitive concept… and an even more sensitive reality. The practice of Sexual Healing and Awakening is still not a licensed profession. It is primarily taught in Schools of Tantra Yoga, yet anyone can “do it,” or say they do it.   As many of you know, the Divine Feminine Institute taught and … Read more

First Ladies and Feminine Essence

What moves the wife of an elected President, when overnight she becomes the “First Lady” of the nation? Where and when does the wisdom and the deep nurturing of the feminine show itself in our nation’s presidential partnership? This is a question that remains unanswered. Beneath her new designer closet and the “role” she must … Read more

Opening the Portal to Winter

Long hours of snuggling under down comforters with my honey… pots of hot Chai steaming on the stove… the promise of many long conversations by the fire stretching out on sheepskin rugs in sexy flannels… Gazing at the patio wet with a late fall rain, yellow and red leaves litter the grey stones from the … Read more

To My Beloved Brother Johnny

I am happy that you are Free… free of the life-long struggle to know Peace of mind and Peace in your soul. Johnny, you are without a doubt the most precious man I have ever known. You have a very tender heart, as well as the incorrigible ability to always show up for me. I … Read more

The Goddess of Genoa

Life is here to be lived. Thanks to so many of you who sent your sincere condolences to my family and me in honor of the passing of my brother, Johnny. I see and feel him constantly, always laughing and encouraging me to make the absolute most of every moment. And so it is… The … Read more

Sweetest Sorrows

I am quietly processing the passing of my only and dearest brother, my only and dearest sibling. His name was John Cusack. I called him Johnny from the day he was born, July 2nd, 1947. Since his passing on July 1st, I can barely keep up with daily life, let alone tend to business, pay bills, … Read more

More Turned-On Than Ever!

Hello my friend, I am filled with the intoxication of a summer picnic, cold watermelon and frozen yogurt pops on a beach with dearest friends. I am pregnant with fulfillment. I am hungry for more… Rapture is how being in love feels. Ecstasy is the place where rapture lives! Yes, I said that… and that … Read more