The process of designing and creating a new website with my team inspired me to have a new photo shoot as outlined in my last blog post. That led me to thinking about my professional presentation and all the ways in which I take great care of myself.

I did a double-take when, as if reading my mind, my beloved sweetheart innocently asked the inquiring question: “How many technicians does it take to Service a Queen?” Why, I had never counted!

I pondered this at length. “Service a Queen” became, in my own words, “maintain this divinely feminine woman,” so I began working on my list. No doubt some have faded into obscurity but this is pretty close to what fills my appointment book each month and year along with Private Immersions, teaching Interviews, seminars and workshops, travel, and of course, a wonderful relationship.

These are my precious, non-negotiable “services”!

Virtual Assistant/Business Manager

Hair (monthly)

Nails (bi-monthly)

Massage (monthly)

Reflexology (monthly)

Internist (quarterly)

Dermatology (semi-annually)

Dentist (semi-annually)

Esthetician – a person who is knowledgeable about the nature and appreciation of beauty, especially in art (monthly)

Trainer/Gym & walks outdoors (3x per week)

Chiropractor (monthly)

Cranial/Sacral Therapist (monthly)

I do have a great attitude that I want do pass on to you and to my students that I embody myself… Yep!

Embody Your Ecstasy! Embody your Tantra Goddess!

I once thought it was the wealthy and retired who have time for all of these “services,” but I find myself falling into the category of non-retired with a business in which I report profits and losses to the IRS… like you I imagine? And I live within the same allotment of hours per day and week as you… I imagine? And I love and need my beauty sleep… like you, I imagine?

This is in addition to my quiet down time doing yoga, self-pleasuring, the preparation of meals, and meaningful conversation with my partner/sweetheart. Or a regenerative nap, often laying on a massage table on my BioMat, above it all in my healing sanctuary at home.

How might I make time to write another book? I am feeling the need and desire to record forevermore the stories and the experiences I have in the private sessions that involve Sexual Awakening and Healing and Tantra for Women. I’m educating people who are aware that life could be more meaningful if they knew more about their sexuality and patterns of intimacy or the fear or lack of it. I rejoice in transformation, but I cannot tell ALL of the stories here in these Blogs… and, of course, I would never mention names as I have great respect for everyone’s privacy.

I publicly admit that another book is on my horizon… something like “Remarkable Women I have Known and Loved.” It will be an easy read containing stories I have heard and transformations I have witnessed. What drove me to write Tantra Goddess, A Memoir of Sexual Awakening, was the driving passion to remember my life before I forgot too much of it. Now I want you to know about these lives I have touched and the courage of women of every age to take on their Awakening into their Birthright of Pleasure.

If you are curious to know more, there are numerous free resources on my brand new website.

I would like to know, in the comments below: How do you embody your Tantra God or Goddess?

Into the Mystery, Caroline

I had the honor of spending 90 minutes recently being interviewed by Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of Conscious Uncoupling, for one of her private classes. It sparked powerful memories and fifty-odd years of relationship, love, separation. and divorce.

While many are doing the sacred work of “uncoupling,” I have lived that sacred work with Charles successfully since 1997. Best Beloved Friends is a worthy choice during and after ending what we believed was a “forever” marriage.

Now I share with you the picture that was taken of my first kiss with Will, fifteen years ago at Maui airport saying good-bye and Aloha to the only man who claimed my attention after my separation and ultimate divorce with the Beloved Charles, four years prior.

I pasted this little saying to the photo many moons ago and it’s still there, proudly the centerpiece of one of many altars in our home.

In speaking with Katherine I authentically praised her very successful and best-selling book, Calling In The One. I ponder about “the One,” having felt each time that I was marrying the One. Each moment with the One is each moment with whomever I am with, if that makes any sense to you. That, to me, is full Connection or showing up in full presence with each invitation to become “one.”

In my wisdom years, I now acknowledge there are more “the Ones” than we can ever imagine. Yet aching and yearning for the One is a function inside each of us that drives our psyche and our sexuality forward. In my thirty years of guiding and participating in Tantric Pujas (a moving mandala of loving presence with each person), I developed the skill of bringing one hundred percent of me into presence with a new individual each moment and in every breath. The tall, the short, or the not so attractive are each The One for those few precious moments in time.

This practice has taught me how huge love really is! And as the little sign in the picture says, staying in love is where real love resides. Living the love that I am is not always easy. I get irritable… I get impatient… I move at a different speed of light than my dearest One… I am annoyed when hard of hearing seems to be his choice, rather than his problem.

But real love, not pretend love, is the outcome of this awareness. This is the staying in love, deepening into love, and growing into the love that happens when a couple ages together over the long term of relationship. I would love to hear about YOUR experience of the work and the commitment it takes to continue deepening into the warm river of unconditional love …

To The One, Caroline

Perrault_Leon_Jean_Basile_Venus_A_La_Colombe Within your own imagination is your potential to merge with HER… or rather YOU… your Divine Goddess… your True Nature. SHE is the inner reflection of you divinely feminine soul.

She is known as “Lady in Red”… or “My Queen”… or “My Lady,” because you bow to her as your way-shower and your guide.  She’s however spritely or divinely you envision HER.

SHE is your best girlfriend… your closest confidant… your observer and your advisor.  She sits on your shoulder or she resides in the temple of your own heart… or both.

Our Divine Femininity is our planet’s savior! Is she Magdalene? The child of Magdalene and Jesus is love itself!

If you choose to marry your soul, you must find the Vows that enable you to speak ‘Goddess,’ not English.

You may choose to use my own Vows in Sacred Marriage to my Soul to guide you:

I VOW THAT … It is time… it’s time… to listen to you, Beloved.

It is time… it’s time… to follow the truth as you speak it to me.

It is time… to Embody the Feminine divine… as me!

It is time… to follow faithfully YOU, my Lady, who dwells as my soul.

It is time… to follow my commitment to dance with your flames, however hot they may be.

I am bathed in your love… I am warm and safe and protected.

I vow to risk ALL in service to you, holy Magdalene of all that you can be.

And then SHE whispers to me from my deepest yoni soul’s voice:

“TEACH AS ME… your feminine soul.
I lick you into full awareness.
My tongue drips nectar upon your lips.
Touch tongues with me and 
ignite the glory of Goddess Divine.
Translate the feminine divine soul
for your friends, family and students

Practice the howl of Ahhhhhhhh!!!
… igniting the sleeping soul of every woman’s wisdom.

SUCK my truth between pursed lips.
DRINK my sweet milk into every cell of your being.

YOU are wet with my love… my never-ending devotion

KNOW THAT I AM YOURS”

 

Moonscape_scenic_landscapeI hereby declare these vows through the light of the Full Moon, in whom dwells Mother Goddess who will never desert me.

Yours in eternal devotion…  

Glammie of the Tribe

Caroline Muir

Queen of All Things