Becoming Ageless

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(Republished from December 2015)

Agelessness

Love and sex go together like birds of a feather… but when it comes to mid-life, us ageless women may have a bit of healing and awakening to do in order to reclaim the fullness of our passion.

Libido

For me, it seems that what I used to know as libido is no longer localized to the libido-center, but has seeped into all of me. Beware of falling into the belief that passion is only for the young, or younger! Passion lives in our whole being, as witnessed by the authors, artists, and spirited women who are living fully in their boundless creativity.

Sexual Energy

 Sexual energy is at the very core of our existence. It doesn’t die or lay fallow or even rise of its own accord… it must be cultivated by each one of us as a resource of creative energy gifted to us by God/ess Herself. Why else would so many post-menopausal women continue to birth projects, paintings, and proactive expressions of passion after their child-bearing years are past? Mid-life is just the beginning… the beginning of every woman’s fulfillment in ways she cannot imagine until that epiphany moment when she enters her next incarnation as a truly Spirited force.

Health Benefits

Life extension doctors and Ph.D.’s are in recognition and agreement about the health benefits of our sexual life force as a resource for longevity and vitality. Let’s not forget the sense of well-being inherent in knowing we are still able and capable of orgasmic pleasure long after libido wanes. I was privileged to participate on a panel once at the Science and Non-Duality Conference. It was there that I gleaned how ready neuroscience is to embrace sexual energy as a tonic for brain receptors and the release of nitric oxide in understanding what it is that makes us feel good. Nitric Oxide is the substance or molecule released by lightening during a thunderstorm and was the Molecule of the Year in 1992 (in case you were wondering!).

Life Force

So how do science and passion collide? Very little research is done on Female Sexual Response. We cannot overlook the gift of our sexual life force and how it can be brought to bear on many aspects of our daily life. The Practice of AH, the core teaching of Divine Feminine Awakening, is the single most valuable practice people can learn to incorporate into their intimate experiences. Loving, intentional touch and massage awakens the flow of molecules that keep our life force flowing well into mid-life and beyond.

How do you keep yourself ageless? Please share in the comments below.

Big Love, Caroline

SwansLove and sex go together like birds of a feather… but when it comes to mid-life, ageless women may have to adjust their expectations in order to reclaim or release the fullness of their passion. Furthermore, I am not convinced that ageless women are supposed to reclaim the passion we had in our youth, especially if we are in a long-term relationship with someone close to our own age. When does doing ‘it’ stop? Does it ever stop? And how many definitions are there for ‘it’?

Since men and women go together like bees and honey, when it comes to our combined mid-life years, things begin to change a bit. Let’s take a look together, as some of you are still very libido driven, or you are with a partner who is, or you have simply thrown in the proverbial towel. Or, a same sex relationship is your current milieu. Or, all of the above at different times!

There appears to be a new fullness to my passion as I mature into a fully organic and sustainable female (I will have wine with that, please!). I don’t experience my sexuality or sensuality as locally or genitally as I did when I was younger. Orgasm is a state of mind. It exudes in every center of my being, from my brain into my heart and finally settles in my genitals as a warm reminder of the pulse of life. Satisfaction takes on new meaning, and climax is all pervading! And still there are those rare yet precious times when my sexual response is like a young filly prancing in hot pursuit.

Passion lives in our entire being, as witnessed by the authors, artists, and spirited men and women who sing, write, and dance the praises of boundless creativity.

I am having a resurgence of passion for MEN, especially men who in their aging process are giving up their sexual potency to the inevitable lowering of their testosterone. If they aren’t erect, it seems that nobody is very interested. That is such a damn shame! Do you women know how much fun you can have with a ‘soft-on’? You have within you the power to resurrect your man, or any man you choose, by empowering and delighting in his soft-on!

There is quite a bit left of him besides his erect Wand of Pleasure! His body is as hungry as yours for touch, pleasuring, kisses, and contact. Sex becomes sexual loving as you move through mid-life. Thank God/Goddess for that!!! I am happy to consult with any of you about ‘soft-on’ loving as an art form! In a one hour Skype session, we can cover many of the teachings for Men’s Awakening and Healing, and have fun doing it. (Advance notice will give me time to find the perfect Skype version of a demo model).

Sexual energy is at the very core of our existence. It doesn’t die or lay fallow… it deserves to be cultivated by each one of us as a resource of creative energy gifted to us by our creator. Why else would so many post menopausal women continue to birth projects, paintings, and proactive passions after their child-bearing years are past? Mid-life is just the beginning… the beginning of every woman’s fulfillment into expanded passion in ways she cannot imagine. Until then she can look forward to her epiphany when she enters her next incarnation as a truly Spirited force.

Life extension doctors and PhD’s are in recognition and agreement about the health benefits of our sexual life force as a resource for longevity and vitality. Let’s not forget the sense of well-being inherent in knowing we are still able and capable of orgasmic pleasure long after libido wanes. The Practice of AH, the core teaching of Divine Feminine Awakening, is the single most valuable practice people can learn to incorporate into their intimate experiences. Loving, intentional touch and massage awakens the flow of molecules that keep our life-force flowing.

I wish you a holiday season filled with juicy expressions of your essential self.

Big love, Caroline

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