How You See Others Can Tell You a Great Deal About Yourself
Have you ever noticed how you compare yourself to others?
Say your good friend suddenly meets a man and he is crazy about her. The more they see of each other, the more your mind turns to thoughts such as…
She really isn’t that attractive.
She still carries that extra weight.
At least she could get a new hairstyle or do something more to enhance her looks.
And on and on you go, comparing and judging your friend by outside appearances, rather than showing sincere curiosity about what it is that makes her so attractive to a desirable man.
Do you find yourself resenting your friend’s new happiness, while you wish that it were you getting dressed for yet another date to go dancing or to dinner?
Are your buttons getting pushed as this reminds you of high school, when it seems all of the desirable boys wanted to date your tiny and petite friends?
Back then, it probably made you feel far larger than you actually were. And perhaps still today, even if you fit beautifully into a size 12, you question your desirability and attractiveness.
Your subconscious mind is still feeling the rejection of the teenager! It holds you back from projecting confidence and self-esteem. You will continue to attract friends who push those old buttons, often seeing them as causing your pain.
At your core you are certain that you can never be enough. Your core is a very deep place and you may wonder if it can even be accessed or if you are just stuck with this old stuff.
Much of my life read like the above. It wasn’t until my beloved friend and lover began working with me using several simple techniques I now teach, that I began to crack the hard crust over my core and allow love to flow in. Under that crust is an ocean of the warmest love… a love for myself that has given me the greatest gifts of my life.
We don’t all have the good fortune to meet a friend or lover who can undertake the role of cracking us wide open. It is not a role for the faint of heart. I cried uncontrollable burning tears for years in order to melt my resistance to being loved, because I was taught from childhood that it was better to give than to receive. It wasn’t until I could truly put myself first that I began to live a happy and turned-on life.
You don’t have to go through years of tears to access your own self-love!
I can help you
♥ recognize the life patterns that hold you back from loving yourself and how to catch yourself “in the act.”
♥ appreciate and reward yourself for the work you are doing to reclaim your birthright of ecstatic aliveness.
♥ see the hidden fears that keep you in pain in your relationships.
♥ transform the tricks your mind plays on you that bring you pain rather than pleasure.
♥ shift loneliness, pain, and despair into True Love
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Big Love, Caroline